I’ve really been working on forgiving my son. I had rencently begun to feel real compassion for him again. Today, we learned he is engaged to some girl we’ve never even heard of. This young lady has a three year old son. (This isn’t mentioned as a reason not to approve of her. Rather it increases anger toward Jarred!) He is a drug addict, suffers from severe mental illness, is deeply in debt, and has no source of income because he is in PRISON!!!!! In addition to all these issues, we learned of his engagement via facebook. I realize that he may not be engaged at all since this girlfriend is the one doing all the updates to his facebook. This only changes my mood to dark dark gray.